Seeking Solitude

  Solitude is a weird thing.  It is often confused with loneliness but, in reality, it is far different.  While the two seem similar due to the fact that in both, one is alone, the likeness ends there.  Loneliness is almost an intense sadness marked by the feeling of isolation. It can be stressful and negative.  Oftentimes, loneliness can feel like a harsh punishment. Solitude, on the other hand, is just being by oneself and can actually be a positive state.  During solitude, one can find an inner peace, creativity and replenishment.  One can be alone in the world, yet, be at peace with that world.  

  I ponder these things often as I spend a lot of time by myself.  I prefer it that way.  Others seem to think that life is not fulfilling unless days are jammed full of people and activities.  It is just the opposite. Those are the stress-inducing times.  Finding a peace with one's surroundings is the most fulfilling state of mind.

  As strange as it may seem, a good, heavy fog can make the world feel so far away.  `There are times on the Bayou that the fog is so thick that I feel cut off from the entire world. This solitude is refreshing.  There are no demands from the busy, outside world.  The solitude refreshes me and allows me to regain my perspective on life.  Loneliness is destructive....Solitude is replenishing.