Rather than a new job, I should say that an existing job has veered into a different direction. The old dog that is in my care is really showing his age lately. I was advised at the last visit with veterinarian that this was to come but I was still not ready. Do you ever get ready for things like this? Mr. PJ started showing signs that things were "just not right" about a week ago. First, he did something that was so out of character that even he was shocked. His bladder let loose in the house. Not just a dribble but full blown peeing everywhere. Poor old fellow was humiliated to say the least. That set in motion a new routine. Now as soon as he gets up, he goes outside. Usually, that was done after he ate. This is working as far as the bladder situation goes but a new problem arose that needed tending.
For the past two days, my sweet old friend has lost a good bit of strength and most of the control of his hind legs. He has good intentions of standing, walking and typically being what he used to be but it does not happen. Good news...he does not appear to be in pain. He is in good spirits, eating well and, other than the accidents, has regular "waste disposal" functions. My new job is to help him continue with his daily routines. I help him walk.
Carrying a 60lb dog is not an easy task for someone my age so a bit of ingenuity came into play. For now, an old bath towel is folded in half lengthwise and passed under Mr. PJ's belly. The two ends of the towel are held in one hand above his back. This way, I can gently lift his body while he "pedals" along with the front legs. It works well with little stress on him...or me. It took a little while for him to get the idea that I was helping but once he did, he accepted my efforts. If his condition does not improve, the plan is to sew a "hoisting cloth" with handles so the process will be easier.
There are those who would rather just "put him down"...there are those who have to give unneeded advice...there are those who find it ridiculous that I am putting this much effort into helping a dog..but as long as he and I can work this out decently, we will work through it. I am not letting a friend in need down because I am too lazy to deal with his needs. Mr. PJ deserves my help and will get it until it is not needed. It is hard. It is time consuming. I become frustrated. He becomes frustrated. But, we will do the best we can...together.

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