I guess it was not really uncommon for children to play with fire, tromp in marsh or eat strange things in my grandmother's day. I am sure that we did things that made my mother's hair turn gray prematurely, too. There were times that I wondered how my own three survived their childhoods. I tried to let my children learn by experience while living on the Bayou. They did things that their peers had never heard of..nor..thought of doing. They walked to the creek, went "scavenging" along the shoreline, released an alligator into the Bayou, fished in the Bay, planted gardens and made friends with "wild" animals. I had everything from frogs and crabs to baby otters in my bathtub. More than once I found baby birds and baby squirrels in boxes in their rooms. At one point, there was even a baby 'possum taking up residence in the living room! Any homeless animal ended up as our house guest until it was able to be released into the wild again. I think children need to interact with wildlife to gather a healthy respect for nature. Maybe not by eating the Marsh Periwinkles but still experiencing a life that did not always involve some type of "artificial" entertainment. Don't get me wrong..my kids had their game systems and all sorts of toys..maybe too many..but there was always a healthy mix. When they get together now that they are grown, more often than not..it is these times that they are reminiscing.
My..how we have changed through the years..no parent these days would dream of allowing their little one to do these things! Things change from generation to generation and sometimes it is for the better..but then..maybe not.
This story just reemphasizes why your 3 kids are so incredible!
ReplyDeleteHa! Maybe it just explains why I have so much grey hair!
ReplyDeleteScavenging, "pyrootin'", and picking up hurt/abandoned animals were awesome activities! Just, uh, don't mention the many times I injured myself with the "spy nunchucks" Mark made for me...
ReplyDeleteMaybe the "spy" games should be another post..hmm..complete with pictures????
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