Saturday, March 28, 2026
The Queen Is Back
Tuesday, March 10, 2026
Faerie House? Gnome Home? Just A Stinky Mushroom?
Friday, October 3, 2025
Just A Lily Brightening the Way.
I have been lax on taking care of the plants this whole summer. It seems as if one thing or another has gotten in the way and anything not on that "priority" list fell to the wayside. I feel bad about it but, at the same time, feel there was no need in pushing myself beyond feasible limits. I am getting old. Today, however, as I meandered back behind the old greenhouse to the grape arbor, I was greeted in the most pleasant way. The lycoris lilies were in full bloom...at least as much of "full" bloom as was possible in view of the recent chomping by the Eastern Lubber Grasshoppers. Those things are relentless! The lilies proved stronger and were simply gorgeous. The golden color is a perfect touch for the hint of fall that we are enjoying.
These particular lilies were from a few bulbs that I received some 30 years ago from a dear friend. Ms. Twin (yes, there were two and they were both "Ms. Twin") had dug up some of her bulbs just to share with me. This sweet elderly lady knew I loved flowers of any kind and knew that she had the perfect gift...one from the heart. I was elated and immediately planted the bulbs. They have bloomed every year since and always remind me of the dear friend. Sadly, she passed only two years after gifting the bulbs to me.
The lilies are in the same family as the Red Nerine lilies that are so abundant across the Deep South. They have a dozen or so names including Lycoris Lily, Nerine Lily, Spider Lily, Jersey Lily, Guernsey Lily and even Naked Lady Lily (due to the lack of leaves...not clothes.) The spotting of the lilies gave me a much needed lift this morning and I was able to continue the day with a bit more ambition that before. I figure if the lilies could fight against the drought and grasshoppers then I should be able to fight against the tiredness that wracks the body. Never doubt that somewhere hidden among the trials is an answer that can make everything right again.
Friday, September 5, 2025
The Lack of Sleep and a Thing of Beauty!
A few years ago, my brother gave me a piece of a plant that he had on his front porch. He said that it was there when he moved into the house. The home used to be our grandparents' place and I do recall there being a lot of plants there when our grandparents were alive. The plant was a cactus of sorts and greatly resembled the Night Blooming Cereus that I had (from the same grandparents). He said that his plant had never bloomed to his knowledge even though it was about 30 years old. Hmm...well, it was still interesting so I gladly took my "leaf" home to root. The cutting did well and soon became a huge plant that I lugged in and out of the greenhouse to protect. I was happy with the night "non-blooming" cereus just because it was an interesting cactus. Whereas the other cereus plant leaves were flat, these start out triangular and then flatten. Such an odd addition to my "rainforest".
Well, now three years after the gift of a cutting, the cactus decided it was time to bloom! Last night, I stayed up far too late for this old lady just so I could view (and photograph) the bloom. Needless to say, that 4am rising time came before I was ready but Bat, the cat, thought otherwise. Happily, the bloom was still open although a bit weary itself. I smiled as I stepped out the French doors before dawn. Seeing that single flower well made up for the lack of sleep.
Now comes the bit of studying time to find out exactly what type of night-blooming cactus this is. There are so many different types out there! Having the triangular stems (leaves) and the smaller bloom should help in the research. Also, rooting more has become a priority!
Wednesday, August 27, 2025
Red and Purple?
Back eons ago when I was a kid, I was often told not to wear red and purple clothing together. Wearing a red skirt with a purple blouse was a huge no-no. For a while, I assumed that Mom just did not like the pairing but then had several aunts and my grandmother tell me the same. "Do not wear those two colors together! Go change!" It saddened me as I thought the colors were magnificent together! Others, however, were not as enthusiastic as I was so, I changed my attire and wore something bland...colorless. I actually felt as if I blended with the surroundings and was not seen at all. Then, again, perhaps that was the idea. Maybe I was not to be seen. I am not sure. In my middle years, I sort of kept "blending in", not only with my attire but with my decorating of the Little Bayou House. I tried to please everyone else...but me. Now? Now I have reached old age and I just do not care what others think. I wear what I want and decorate how I please. I have finally come to the conclusion that it is really no one else's concern.
That said, I sit on my red velvet, Victorian settee staring at the west facing window. Son had installed shelves across both the east and west windows so I could display a collection of colored glass. Usually, there is a virtual rainbow of colors in each window but...since Fall is coming...I decided to redecorate. My choice of colors for fall in the living room? Well, red and purple, of course! One really cannot always go with oranges, yellows and browns, now can you? Besides the colorful window, there is a huge urn of purple and black roses interspersed with the most lifelike spiders and a purple crescent moon complete with a golden spider web and two bejeweled spiders! The room is also dotted with black pumpkins, purple candles in antique candelabras and a brass birdcage with a crow that actually talks to you! This is a weird take on Fall decorating but it suits me fine! Other parts of the house are bedecked with the typical fall colors that can easily move into Halloween with just a few added touches.
So...do red and purple go well together? Perhaps only if you are a bit eccentric and have been tied down for far too long by the naysayers of this world. In other words, if you like it...go for it. Whatever that "it" is, if it makes you happy, then do it! Don't wait like I did. Don't let others make you have second thoughts. Just do it and enjoy it! Life is far too short. And...I smile as I watch the sunbeams glow through the glass pieces with a radiance like none other.
Friday, August 22, 2025
Secrets Along The Garden Paths
Some of the best kept secrets can be found in the garden. Each morning offers a new surprise whether in the form of baby birds, caterpillars transforming to butterflies or blooms that are there only for those who search. My gardens are pretty much left to wild abandon as plants seem to outgrow their gardens or pots. This "rainforest" look offers plenty of hiding spots for the critters. Each leaf is alive with lizards, skinks and frogs, not to mention, myriads of bugs. Turtles, snakes and toads are often found hiding in the shadiness of the winding paths of the Small Gardens. These are friends that are welcome to reside here but its those hidden blooms that intrigue.
Yesterday, the turmeric plants did not disappoint. The lush (five feet tall) leaves had to be pushed aside to see the blooms. These appear down in the midst of the stalks and bear a great resemblance to a fleshy pinecone of bright colors. Most in the garden are white with bright pink and yellow flowers in the bracts. While some of the flowers are edible, there are a few that are not. Those are strictly ornamental. (It is best to know just what type you are growing before foraging any parts!) Edible or not, the turmeric blooms offer a bit of whimsy along the garden path. Most folks walk right past without ever seeing this beauty.
Another "almost" hidden bloom was found after the turmeric bracts. A waterlily had opened a gorgeous pink bloom but it was half hidden beneath the pads. Usually, the blooms are on stalks that are above the floating pads (leaves) but this time that was reversed. The pads were stalked and curled upwards while the bloom floated on the water's surface. As a bit of added interest, all parts of the waterlily are edible, although, I have not had a whim to try them...maybe some day soon.
Folks, there is something highly tranquil about taking a stroll down a garden path at the break of dawn and finding hidden secrets of either flora or fauna. We all need that in the craziness of the world around us. In the gardens...there is peace.
Sunday, July 13, 2025
Only One Task On Her Mind
We, as humans, oftentimes find it difficult to stay focused on our task at hand. Admittedly, I do. Son laughs a bit when we will be working on a project and I spy something interesting. His comment is only "Oh, look a bunny!" It does not even have to be a rabbit that distracted me! It can be a butterfly, a snake, a frog, a glass of lemonade, a funky shaped cloud....anything will cause me to lose interest in a chore and set me off in a different direction. Let me clarify that this is not something that has to do with age. This has been a lifelong thing with me. So, one can easily see how I came to find the box turtle this morning. I simply got distracted from the task at hand (also known as throwing scraps in the compost bin.) Anyway, I did, indeed, find a turtle and did, indeed, have to go greet said turtle. It is just my way.
Actually, my visit with the box turtle was quite interesting. A female turtle had ambled out of the marsh and was still rather covered with mud. She trudged up the hillside just a wee bit, stopped then peered in every direction. I greeted her. She ignored me. Hmmmph! That is some way to treat your neighbor! I plopped myself down on a nearby log and watched her. Just as I suspected, the turtle started digging a hole. My turtle was to be a mama! This box turtle had come from the marsh to lay her eggs.
My first instinct was to sit and watch her until she was finished just so I could put a wire frame over her nest. If this is not done, the raccoons would raid the nest and leave nary an egg. Yep, my first instinct was to watch...then I remembered that this was a long, drawn-out process and I was sitting right in the midst of about a bajillion mosquitoes and just as many deerflies. Nope, I was not going to allow myself to be eaten alive. I would check on our sweet lady and her "birthing" progress later!
All in all, it took nigh on three hours before she was satisfied with her task....about an hour to dig the hole, maybe another half hour laying the eggs and then the remaining time covering the nest. Once she was finished, it nearly impossible to see where she had dug the nest. Nothing was left to lead any predator to her eggs except maybe a scent. Once she made her way into the palmettoes and then into the marsh, I set the cage over the nest site. Hopefully, this will keep any marauding critters at bay. The cage is slightly raised to allow the little ones to make a dash for the palmettoes but is heavy enough to discourage those wanting eggs for supper. Good luck, Little Ones!
Friday, July 11, 2025
Arrival of the Toads
To me, there is nothing better than spying a couple of toads in the gardens. I try to leave their "dens" (small dugout cubbies) so the critters feel at ease and will continue to reside amongst the vegetable plants and flowers. Their voracious appetites for bugs works wonders in protecting the plants. Not only will toads munch down insects, they will quickly down slugs and snails which makes me (and the plants) all the happier. So, the toads stay...along with frogs, lizards and non-venomous snakes. All of these are a true gardener's friends.
On either side of the house, there is a small pond. One, I named the "Frog Pond" for obvious reasons. Frogs and toads love this safe place to gather, mate and lay eggs. It is not uncommon to find thousands of tadpoles hiding under the lily pads and water hyacinths. The other pond is much smaller so is named "Puddle Pond". Puddle Pond is merely a catch pool for runoff from the house eaves. I concreted a small "stream" alongside the length of the house and then down the hillside just a wee bit. This small pond also has become a haven for treefrogs and toads. Once again, the hyacinths provide a thick protection from predators so the frogs and toads feel safe. Both ponds are within the gardens so my critter friends do not have far to go to find their dinner.
This is the time of year for those billion or so tadpoles to start morphing into their adult selves and leave the safety of their watery homes. One has to be careful when wandering the gardens simply to avoid stepping on these tiny critters. They are no bigger than a pea and, since the toads are dark in color, hard to see when in mulch. Thankfully, they are a bit "squishable" and can pull themselves back together if I make a misstep.
One such tiny toad was making his exit from the Puddle Pond when I was out and about. The tiny critter hurriedly hippity-hopped up the concrete "stream" to the chive row where it quickly disappeared under the leaf mulch. The sighting caused me to smile as I whispered out well-wishes to the wee one. Now, hopefully, it will avoid the ribbon snake that lives about ten feet further down that stream and the black racer that lives under the plant arbor just to the outside of the chive row. Be safe, Little One! You have a big chore ahead of you keeping my garden free from pests!
Monday, June 23, 2025
Is He Helping?
Mr. Bat and I arise well before dawn. He is usually the first to come out of dreamland and, then, he nudges me until I, too, am fully awake. As a cat, his motive is food. He wants breakfast! My motive is to cede to his wishes and open a can of cat food then head to the kitchen to brew a pot of strong coffee. Since the sun does not rise at this hour, I try to find projects to fill the next two hours. Things have to stay quiet as the menfolk here are still asleep. Art projects are usually my go-to entertainment. Bat? He usually goes back to sleep leaving me to my own accord.
This morning, I had a whim to create something utilizing an old glass tabletop from a dilapidated outdoor set. The idea was to do some reverse glass painting on the bottom then hang the piece in the window so it appeared to be a stained glass piece. First on the agenda was to make a paper pattern which would make the art work far easier than free-handing it on the glass itself. Drawing on paper is the way to go, folks! Anyway...as usual...my work was started on the floor. The tabletop was set, paper was fitted in the top and the artwork was to begin! Mr. Bat had other ideas...
As with any cat, curiosity got the best of him. Then...as with any cat, he decided that the piece was there for his pure enjoyment. My artwork came to a halt as the cat sat on the paper then decided a nap was in order. Well, so much for getting anything accomplished this morning! Everyone knows that you NEVER disturb a cat that has chosen a special napping spot. Oh, if I was not so fond of this little buddy, I would get so much more done! Then, again, maybe he thought he was helping.
Tuesday, June 10, 2025
Somewhere Beyond the Garden Gate
Gardens are one of few places where you can find yourself while losing yourself. It is hard to understand that if you are only exposed to well manicured lawns and overly neat flower beds. I have neither of those. It is my habit of letting things grow where they may and letting them spill over to greet the other plants as they please. Parsley visits the basil while mingling with the wild purslane. Tomatoes have made friends with petunias and zinnias all the while shaking hands with the jasmine vines. Squash shade the bell peppers who have a tendency to hug the garlic. It is this way throughout the yard. Pathways lead you everywhere...yet nowhere. You get lost among the towering plants that are blooming with birds, bees, lizards and butterflies. Then...you find yourself.
Sunday, May 25, 2025
The Lovely Mimosa Syrup!
Here lately, it has become a great interest of mine to find uses for whatever is on the place. It is not of my nature to run to the store for things. In fact, I do not go at all if what I need can be found, grown, repurposed or caught (fish, crabs and shrimp). While most folks would consider this a "hard" way of doing things, it suits my needs perfectly so it has become a way of life. The shelves are well stocked if not overstocked with jars of fruits, vegetables, nuts, juices and medicines. Yep, I have turned to herbal remedies for a lot of ailments. Doctors' visits still come into play if needed and for checkups but, if it is something I can fix with an elixir, tisane, balm or tincture, so be it.
Now comes the surprising fact. There are so many plants, shrubs and trees that fall into the category of healing plants that my "medicine cabinet", also known as a pantry shelf, seems to be filling quickly with the wondrous concoctions of days past. Sometimes, folklore is more of a science than pure legend. More than once, these "potions" saved me from illnesses that were brought to the Little Bayou House by unthinking people. Just last month, after being exposed three different times, crape myrtle tisane mixed with sage and rosemary helped me to ward off a bad respiratory illness. Both Mark and Son were ill and my sweet sister-in-law had the same virus. My tisane came to the rescue!
Now, a new "brew" has been added to the shelf! Six half pints of the loveliest syrup was stirred up from an unlikely source. Mimosa! Albizia julibrissin! Yep, that lovely, pink silk tree that grows so rampantly in the South has quite the healing properties. I have been wanting to try this for ages but the trees bloom at the same time that the garden produces so my time was spent canning foodstuffs and the blooms did their happy thing of making the yard beautiful and delightfully aromatic. Yesterday, however, Son was helping me pick plums when I mentioned how I wish I had time to pick the mimosa blooms. He never questioned my motives but merely ambled down the hill and reached up to the high limbs. "Are these good?" Yay! I picked and picked the fluffy blooms until I had a half of bucket full. While he would hold down the limbs and I would pick, I started telling him about my plans. He smiled and just nodded. He knows his mom is weird but he also knows that the remedies work.
The blooms were "debugged" (think spiders...each carefully returned to their tree), washed and then put in a saucepan of water. After simmering, the blooms were carefully removed and sugar (and a wee bit of lemon juice) added. The simmering continued until a nice, syrupy blend was created. This was canned and set to seal. My beautiful syrup will be ready when needed! (No, I do not store my canned goods in the window but it was the best way to capture the gorgeous color and clarity of the syrup!)
It feels good to be learning what Mother Nature has to offer even at this late in the game for me. My kiddos keep telling me to learn new things but, in this case, I think I am learning old things...just new to me.
Sunday, April 13, 2025
They Are Back!
As is his habit, Son heads down the lane to the mailbox each afternoon. Anyone who knows Son will be quick to tell you that he also has a habit of moving about quite silently. More than once, he has walked up right behind me without my knowing. It is not that he tries to sneak but, rather, that he learned this type walk as a child and has stuck with it. He is just not a noisy man! It is that mode of silent walking and the fact that most wild critters have full trust of him that he gets to view all sorts of wildlife that few others ever do.
The other day, he came in from his daily trek down the long lane and asked for my old camera. That could only mean one of two things. Either he needed to repair the thing or he found something highly interesting that he wanted to share with me. It was the latter. He slipped out the back door and headed back down the lane. After a few minutes, he came back and handed me the camera. "Guess who are back?" he asked. Well, that could have meant any number of critters or even people. I viewed the photographs he had taken and was happy to see that his new "friends" were three tiny armadillos that were living down the lane under an old truck of my brother's. Aww, they are back! Son said that they ran out when he was on the lane but by the time he got back with the camera, they were returning to their den. I am sure he will see them again as they are curious creatures.
By saying the armadillos are back simply refers to their choice of a den. Years ago, my oldest son took photographs of some little armadillos that were (at that time) living under an old car. My kids were still young enough to want to play with the critters and were elated to find their new "pets". Yes, I did allow this despite of the many misconceptions of how these animals carry diseases. I figured then (and now) that people carry more diseases than a critter so it was all good. I played with them when I was a kid and my kids played with them as youngsters. Now Son has new friends to entertain him on his daily walk to the mailbox. Sweet!
Wednesday, March 19, 2025
Of Importance...Praying Mantis Egg Case
The weather has been plenty warm enough to plant the spring/summer gardens. Mark has been building several raised gardens to go along with our in-ground plots. These are being filled with mulch from the downed leaves (winter storm) and compost from our bins started last year. There will be no need to buy the chemical-laden stuff this year which makes me elated. So far, squash, potatoes, bell peppers and tomatoes have been planted with hopes of digging rows for green beans coming this weekend. It is a lot of work but the rewards are great...fresh veggies without the high cost, getting a workout without a gym membership and lots of sunshine just to lift the spirits. I guess all of the elation comes from memories of growing up on a small farm and the happy times as a kid.
In one of the veggie plots there is a pear tree right smack in the middle. When it was planted, I had no idea that my gardens were going to expand to this area. The tree does not present a problem and actually provides a bit of cooling shade to some of the plants. As I was looking at the pear blossoms, I noticed a bump on one of the small limbs. Yep, there was a praying mantis egg case! Yay! I am excited! I am in hopes that every last one of the eggs in this case would hatch to be a healthy critter. That would mean that up to 200 praying mantids would roam the garden devouring all of the pests that intended to devour my plants! After admiring the case for a few moments, I started to work again.
On the west side of this same garden, there is a small persimmon tree that has seen better days. In fact, I do believe it has met its demise so I started to remove it. While examining the small tree for any life, I found yet another praying mantis egg case! Whoa! That could mean up to 400 mantids! My gardens would definitely benefit from this. Needless to say, the persimmon tree (even though quite dead) will stay put for the time being. That egg case is valuable if only to a gardener.
Friday, February 28, 2025
Feeling Pretty Good!
Every now and again, a person can feel pretty good about something accomplished. I am feeling pretty good. For the past few years, I have taken up a new hobby of repairing antique clocks. This all came about because (after a stroke), my kids told me that I needed to learn something new...something totally new. Being caught off guard, I spouted off that I was going to learn how to repair clocks since a broken clock was the first thing that caught my attention. Well, they held me to that declaration and here I am. I am still in the learning process but the walls, shelves and tabletops are now filled with antique clocks. Keep in mind here that I did NOT say I was going to collect clocks but, again, here I am. I have more clocks in my living room that most folks own in a lifetime. These are mostly clocks that were deemed as "unrepairable" and practically given away or sold for a song. (If I am going to rip something apart, I sure do not want to sink a lot of money into it first.)
Back about a year ago, I found a gentleman who had a clock for sale really cheap as it was broken. I told Mark that I wanted the clock for an anniversary gift so he drove over to retrieve the clock. Once there, the man showed him another clock that he deemed unrepairable and Mark brought it home, too. I was elated! The first clock was a simple repair and has been ticking along beautifully since but the second one was a puzzle. When fully wound, the hands would whir around the face nonstop and the chimes would continuously ring until the springs gave out. If the door was shut, the clock stopped abruptly. Hmmm...it was interesting, to say the least. This clock sat for an entire year simply because I found it amusing. That clock was possessed!
Finally, I found the courage to tackle said clock. Once I took it fully apart, I found the problem. There is a part called a verge/clutch assembly that keeps the pendulum swinging and keeps the movement in check. Alrighty! Now to fix this thing. Oops...the broken part was not to be found. This clock was made in Germany but was no longer in production. Parts became scarce or simply impossible to find. I searched for a compatible piece and finally found one that was so close that I thought it might work. It did and soon the clock was ticking along nicely. Now to fix those hands. It would have been simple enough to put new hands on the clock but I had noticed that the whole mechanism was in wrong. After mending a bit of the woodwork on the inside of the case, the mechanism was refitted and the hands no long came in contact with the door! Success!
Needless to say, I feel pretty good about having the clock working. Not only does this mean that another beautiful, old clock has been restored but it also means that I am keeping my word! I am learning antique clock repair. While I know that I will never reach "professional" level, at least, I AM learning! Yep, feeling pretty good right about now!
Wednesday, February 19, 2025
Things Are Better With A Hug!
Back last month, I seriously thought my garden had met its demise. A foot of snow covered everything...cabbages, cauliflower, broccoli and carrots. It saddened me to think that all of the hard work put into getting a winter garden in would be killed by...what else...winter. Snow and 14 degree temperatures are not a normal occurrence down this far south. Personally, I am glad it is not. After the snow melted, I was surprised to see that most (not all but most) of the plants had survived. Especially healthy looking were the carrots! That blanket of snow did not seem to damper their ability to flourish. What a difference in just barely a month!
Today, being chilly, was a good day for a pot of soup. I had made cheese bread yesterday so that just begged for a big pot of potato/broccoli/carrot soup only there were no carrots on hand and I sure was not making the trip to the store for one item. So...potato/broccoli soup was started. It still sounded wonderfully warming and delicious! Midway into soup-making, I thought of my carrots in the garden! On a whim, I dashed out the door and, sure enough, found carrots large enough to harvest. I grabbed about a dozen and hurried back to add them to my pot of soup.
While I was washing the carrots, I noticed that two of the carrots had literally "hugged" each other while growing. They had twisted around on another in a tight spiral. Sweet! A thought occurred to me as I stirred the huge pot of soup. Perhaps those two carrots were befuddled by the drastic temperature change last month and held onto each other for support! Probably not except in my imagination. I have a tendency to look for niceties whenever possible. After all, all things are better with a hug!
Tuesday, February 11, 2025
If Only It Was Green
I am one of those folks who will reuse or repurpose something until it literally is no more. Take my canning pot, as an example. Once the enamel got a bit chipped, it started rusting rendering it not the best for canning. Since I had three of the same pot, I simply got down another from the upper shelf and relegated the rusty one to be used in the greenhouse. There, rust does not matter. Plants are not choosy when it comes to containers. So, the pot found a second life in the art of gardening.
The other day, I grabbed the pot that had been sitting upside down on the greenhouse floor for some time. I needed it to haul the fine compost to the garden. I filled the large pot time and time again and carefully deposited the mulch under the broccoli plants. With the last emptying, I had to start giggling! There, on the inside of the pot sat a blob of dirt from the last time the pot had been used. It was the perfect silhouette of a movie character...one of the most loved characters in the recent history of all movies...Grogu...better known as "Baby Yoda".
Yep, I had been carrying that pot for the last hour without ever noticing that image! After seeing it and having a fit of giggles in the middle of the garden, I figure there had to be a reason that Baby Yoda came to visit. In this old, messed-up world full of insecurities, bitter divisiveness and downright hostility, this puppet dude is the one thing that most folks agree on...he is adorable. So, finding his image in my garden (and I admit to having an overactive imagination) gave me the inspiration to plant more, share more and care more. Now...if only the image in my pot was green!...with big, sad, puppy-dog eyes and the innocence of a babe...I would be in awe. As it is, though, this is just little blob of dirt but the thought of Baby Yoda did brighten my day.
Tuesday, December 31, 2024
Christmas Thought?
Christmas has come and gone and has taken a part of my heart. My eldest son, wife and grandkids have gone back to their home in Florida and daughter and son-in-law have made their escape over a couple of towns from here. Elizabeth and Robbie will be back tomorrow to share New Year's dinner with us but, for now, the place seems to be empty. I am still not ready to tackle the task of "de-Christmasing" so the decorations shall stay for another week...maybe more unless I get the energy.
Christmas decorating at the Little Bayou House is never the same. Sure, most of the ornaments are used year after year but the manner of decorating can be entirely different. This year, the living room was outfitted with as much "Victorian" clutter that it could hold while the dining room was nothing less than country/bayou. Both seemed fitting...both were enjoyed by all who visited so I count it as a success.
After unleashing the frenzy of gift-opening, a thought occurred to me. Why do this? Every year, we stress over what to give, panic over undelivered or late packages and overspend. Why? All gifts were received with grace and appreciation but the most oohs and ahhs were expressed over the handmade gifts. My three adult kids handmade a gift for their siblings. I was fully impressed with their creativity and the excitement, giggles and love proved that those simple gifts were the best! No, I did not get photos. I wish I had. Hopefully, I will do better next year. Now, I am in "gift-making" mode. I do believe I shall try to handmake each and every gift for this next Christmas.
Perhaps, if I stress this idea enough, each member of the family could jump on the bandwagon and give homemade gifts. Nothing needs to be overly elaborate nor expensive...just something given from the heart. Isn't that what Christmas is all about anyway? Love? Even though the official "day" has passed...the love and giving should continue. So....Merry Christmas, folks!
Wednesday, December 11, 2024
Creative Talents
Son often comes to my rescue when I am in a quandary about how to achieve something. His method of observing, contemplating then attempting is to be admired, to say the least. He never dives into things headlong like his old mom. I have a tendency to start midway into a project then become confused when the end result is not to my liking. Not him....think it through BEFORE beginning, gather necessary supplies and tools, then and only then, delve into the solution! His method has proven logical and was, once again, put into use with my home/Christmas decorating.
I have often stated that I was born in the wrong era. I feel a certain awkwardness with the current trends and prefer things from centuries past. This year, I gave into that mood and decided that the living room (with all of its antique furniture) needed to be somewhat Victorian. Yeah...the Little Bayou House is an oddity but it makes me happy. One of the needed changes was from the simple, canvas curtains to rich, velvety draperies complete with embroidered sheers. Not a problem. This change was easy with fabric and curtains from other rooms but I also wanted tiebacks. I tried the lovely satiny rope and tassel things but did not have enough on hand. Son came to my rescue! He created my tiebacks and I could not be happier.
For those who do not know me, I am somewhat of a "clutterer" as I save things that may have a possible use. While Son was scrounging about the place to find components of "Victorian tiebacks", he came across my stash of some things salvaged from discarded items. He suddenly changed from scrounging to creating! Using a wood backing, he quickly attached a ceiling fan blade bracket. This was attached to the window frame with the wood hidden behind the curtain! Yippee! There was a tieback! Three more were made and his old mom was one happy camper!
I am fully thinking that we should all follow his example and think a bit before jumping into action. (Me, especially!) That observing and thinking sort of go out the window when I face problems. Son's method serves him well and I have my "quasi-Victorian" Christmas room! I feel perfectly at home!
Sunday, November 24, 2024
Red "Texas Star" Morning?
I am one of those odd people who finds beauty in most everything around the Bayou. For a while, it seemed as if the whole world had gone to pot and it was extremely hard to "look on the bright side". Then, it came to me that dire outlook had to change and it was entirely up to me to change it. So...I started finding beauty in the most mundane things just to prove to myself that whatever happens outside of my realm of the Bayou, it is not my concern. Only what is here should be of importance since I cannot change the world but I can change myself. Now, I make a point of seeking out what others deem as "everyday" blah and I search for happiness. It is there.
For instance, the other morning, there was an amazing sunrise. While most folks will admit to the wonders of the sunlit horizon (if they are awake at that early time), not many seek how the red sky has an effect on other things. In the garden there is a shepherd's hook that holds windchimes. Mark brought this home from a tractor place several years ago and it has been quite useful. I am not sure why he chose to bring a star (which looks mightily like the "Texas Star" emblem to me) but it fits right in with the mishmash of other oddities around the place. I had just come up from the pier and plopped down on the front steps to retie my shoe when I noticed the star. Wow! The red sky was an amazing backdrop for the blackness of the still night shaded garden and the star! That is lovely, I thought and had to photograph it!
Ok, so now you get the idea of how I have rerouted my thoughts to find a bit of joy wherever it is dropped. A purple wildflower, a dew bedecked spiderweb, a bright green treefrog or even a star lit by a rosy sunrise, there is always something worth my focus. Folks, life is good regardless of what the outside world is doing. People are people and will never come to terms with "how life is treating them" so I say..."Change the way you feel and find your own happiness wherever it is. Life will only "treat" you as you treat it." Be happy.
Monday, September 2, 2024
The Bayou Provides
While life on a bayou is probably not for everyone, it seems to be perfect for me. Most would rather be highly involved with their social lives and the hubbub that comes with it. Again...not me. I prefer the solitude that I can find here even to the point that I let the land and bayou provide for most of my needs. While the garden is in a lull due to a recent drought, the water is teeming with "foodstuffs". That is where I am spending the bulk of my time...on the pier. Mullet, drumfish, redfish, trout, flounders and crabs are all within reach and shrimp!...yes, shrimp are plentiful this year! A massive influx of shrimp this far from the salty Gulf is rare so all of the locals are taking full advantage of the occurrence! We are throwing the net just about every waking hour and are filling freezers for future use. Free food is always good.
A thought bleeped through the brain yesterday as I was hauling in yet another netful of shrimp. What in the world is this old lady with a bad heart doing down here on the pier? I think I am pushing my strength to the limits this summer. Just last week, after a great checkup with my doctor, I got the orders to "Just keep doing whatever you are doing as it seems to be paying off in great ways with your health." I wonder if Doc knows that I am spending hours at a time throwing a net from the pier? Still...I shall follow Doc's orders and keep doing what I am doing. If nothing else, I shall eat good! *Just a note here...yes, that is my gloved hand holding the shrimp to show the size. I normally do not wear gloves but after throwing the net close to a hundred times each day, my hands were taking a beating. Bleeding fingers are not a good thing. The gloves have come into use!


























